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I grew up in little small churches. By small it means I was related to over half the congregation. There was an expression that was tossed around like the horseshoes at a church picnic, "I am just fat and happy." With that expression we would chew on another piece of fried chicken chased down by some cobbler and homemade ice cream. All in the name of fellowship!
I understand the psychology of food and beverage and the comfort it allows and community it creates. I also understand the greater mission of the church of reaching lost people. I am not criticizing the method. I am sure a scoop of ice cream helped melt the hearts of many.
My rub is with the above expression and held belief by so many in the church - "fat and happy". That might be one of those ironic statements like "jumbo shrimp" that are cute quips, but don't make a whole lot of sense. Here is my challenge, if we are to spend our lives spreading the good news of the gospel why would we intentionally sabotage the longevity of our mission with self induced sickness.
Obesity has been linked to over 70 diseases faced in the United States. Which means that many of the illness that we face are completely preventable. The CDC reports that obesity has been linked to reduced worker productivity and chronic absence from work.
So here is my logical right brain that floods in like a chocolate fountain past my creative left brain -- if we lived healthier physically as followers of Christ we could 1) live longer lives, therefore giving us a more time on this Earth to love people to Christ; 2) I believe (and just opinion) show a better example of our faith. Let's face it, we say not to judge a book by it's cover, but people look at the cover long before they read the pages. This is not a statement on physical beauty as much as it is a statement on appearance and the perception of others. 3) Be more productive with the time we are given.
Here are the benefits of exercise as it relates to our faith. One exercise makes you feel better. The God of the universe designed your body so that as you exercise a chemical is released in your brain to make you feel accomplished and happy. Often referred to as a "runners high". We got drugs in our body God put there. We just have to sweat a little to experience that euphoric feeling of happiness. Why would you not want the feeling?
Two, exercise is a community thing. Fitness is often done in groups and in church we love our groups - small groups, large groups, mom's groups, men's groups, singles groups - we typically have a group for it. Fitness can be a and should community based event that brings people together.
Third, living a physically healthy life affects you inside and out. Oftentimes, a negative self image or self perception is derived from outward physical appearance. One of the emotional byproducts of weight loss is self confidence. It may be a reach, but people who are more comfortable and confident seem to me to be more fulfilled. They seem willing to tackle task, step into their gifts and callings placed on them by God. Maybe it's just me but what if exercise cause people to exercise their gifts?
Andy Stanley in a leadership podcast addressed health and fitness to his audience this way "you can either tell your family 'I am going to take care of me now or you can tell your family you are going to take care of me later.'"
Remember those small churches I grew up in, well there was a traveling minister who sang and preached. While the individual will remain nameless his ministry brand was build around his obesity, it was right there in the name. As he sang for 30 to 40 minutes then preached for another 40 he sweated profusely. At times he seemed to struggle to have enough air and I feared he was going to have a heart attack right there on stage. (It was a Pentecostal church, we would just laid hands on him and pray for his resurrection). But mostly it saddened me. I believe his heart was in the right place but eventually his body was not going to be able to keep up.
The cause of Christ is great. We would not send a soldier into battle without making sure they were fit to fight. So why then as soldiers in God's army is it okay to not be physically ready for the cause? I am not so sure God's design is for us to be "fat and happy" I guess that was just the lie the church told me.
I would love to hear your comments below.
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Saturday, April 26, 2014
Sunday, January 26, 2014
The 3 Places We Look...
We all have those spots...the places we look when the keys are missing or the remote can't be found.
The go to spot when we need to find that extra $0.27.
In life there are similar spots. I call them the 3 places we look. Each of these spots hold incredible benefit for us, but if not careful each can hold you back.
BEHIND
Looking behind is a great tool to remind us where we have been, where we have come from and how far we have come. It is a measuring stick of success.
You can only know how far you come by measuring it against where you've been. This gives a clear sense of exactly how far in life you have come.
Yet looking behind can be like walking in quick sand. It's full of remember whens, the good ole days and it will never be like that again. It can become a mental trap to move forward. Every "there will never be another" creates a mental mile marker that what is ahead of you can not compare to what is behind.
What's behind is behind and great reminder of the...
PRESENT
This moment is happening. Now is now and will never happen again. Whether your in the midst of the storm or life is pool side at the Ritz Carlton, it is happening. Embrace the moment, stop and smell the proverbial (or actual) roses.
Too often we get caught on the bookends -- looking behind or ahead -- that the moment is lost. So go ahead and YOLO it! Because you really only do live once.
As modern day poet MACKLEMORE said,
Can we go back, this is the moment
Tonight is the night, we’ll fight 'til it’s overSo we put our hands up like the ceiling can’t hold usLike the ceiling can’t hold us
Embrace the here and now. But don't live this moment captive to what's BEHIND and not satisfied because you are looking too far...
AHEAD
Benjamin Franklin said "A failure to plan is a plan to fail." Looking ahead requires making plans and plans to achieve those plans. Goals setting is key to success. Having dreams and the desire to chase them is essential to living a fulfilled life.
Looking ahead is all about creating a plan for the future. Understandably, life is going to throw you curve balls. There are going to be moments that you will not be able to control the circumstances. But have a clear destination picked out allows you realign your path and stay on track. So looked ahead with expectation of great things.
Looking ahead can cause amnesia about where you have been and you are. Don't let what is ahead of you hold you back from celebrating past success and winning in the moment you're in.
Oh and your keys are always in the last place you look. (That's because the last place you look is where you find them.)
The go to spot when we need to find that extra $0.27.
In life there are similar spots. I call them the 3 places we look. Each of these spots hold incredible benefit for us, but if not careful each can hold you back.
BEHIND
Looking behind is a great tool to remind us where we have been, where we have come from and how far we have come. It is a measuring stick of success.
You can only know how far you come by measuring it against where you've been. This gives a clear sense of exactly how far in life you have come.
Yet looking behind can be like walking in quick sand. It's full of remember whens, the good ole days and it will never be like that again. It can become a mental trap to move forward. Every "there will never be another" creates a mental mile marker that what is ahead of you can not compare to what is behind.
What's behind is behind and great reminder of the...
PRESENT
This moment is happening. Now is now and will never happen again. Whether your in the midst of the storm or life is pool side at the Ritz Carlton, it is happening. Embrace the moment, stop and smell the proverbial (or actual) roses.
Too often we get caught on the bookends -- looking behind or ahead -- that the moment is lost. So go ahead and YOLO it! Because you really only do live once.
As modern day poet MACKLEMORE said,
Can we go back, this is the moment
Tonight is the night, we’ll fight 'til it’s overSo we put our hands up like the ceiling can’t hold usLike the ceiling can’t hold us
Embrace the here and now. But don't live this moment captive to what's BEHIND and not satisfied because you are looking too far...
AHEAD
Benjamin Franklin said "A failure to plan is a plan to fail." Looking ahead requires making plans and plans to achieve those plans. Goals setting is key to success. Having dreams and the desire to chase them is essential to living a fulfilled life.
Looking ahead is all about creating a plan for the future. Understandably, life is going to throw you curve balls. There are going to be moments that you will not be able to control the circumstances. But have a clear destination picked out allows you realign your path and stay on track. So looked ahead with expectation of great things.
Looking ahead can cause amnesia about where you have been and you are. Don't let what is ahead of you hold you back from celebrating past success and winning in the moment you're in.
Oh and your keys are always in the last place you look. (That's because the last place you look is where you find them.)
Saturday, January 18, 2014
Wishing or Hoping
Disclaimer: This is an idea in progress.
There was a man in my youth who used to say "you can wish in one hand and poop in the other and see which fills faster." Sorry for the crude imagery, especially if you happen to be eating breakfast.
I hated this expression. I fancied myself and someone who wished for something better, especially as a young man. I wished for a better life. I wished for a better job. I wished for a better marriage. As much as I love Disney everything, wishing upon a star does not always equal getting your wish.
A wish is defined as to want something to be true.
Enter Hope.
Hope is a different animal. Wish and Hope are cousins like a tabby cat and a tiger are both felines. But like that tabby cat, wishing just lies around the house waiting to be feed. The tiger is a hunter.
Hope is a want for something attached to the belief that it can come true. Hope is one step past wish, but it is one giant Neil Armstrong moon landing step. I believe hope inspires us to look for opportunity. I believe hope pushes us to walk through open doors and even more so to grad the handle of those doors and check to see if they are locked.
Hope creates an expectation. Hope solidifies belief. Hope is one of those three things above everything...Faith, Hope, Love. It's sandwiched between the greatest of these love and the belief in the things that we do not see yet, faith.
We weren't told to wish. We were told to HOPE!
Hold on to hope. Live with hope!
*more to come
There was a man in my youth who used to say "you can wish in one hand and poop in the other and see which fills faster." Sorry for the crude imagery, especially if you happen to be eating breakfast.
I hated this expression. I fancied myself and someone who wished for something better, especially as a young man. I wished for a better life. I wished for a better job. I wished for a better marriage. As much as I love Disney everything, wishing upon a star does not always equal getting your wish.
A wish is defined as to want something to be true.
Enter Hope.
Hope is a different animal. Wish and Hope are cousins like a tabby cat and a tiger are both felines. But like that tabby cat, wishing just lies around the house waiting to be feed. The tiger is a hunter.
Hope is a want for something attached to the belief that it can come true. Hope is one step past wish, but it is one giant Neil Armstrong moon landing step. I believe hope inspires us to look for opportunity. I believe hope pushes us to walk through open doors and even more so to grad the handle of those doors and check to see if they are locked.
Hope creates an expectation. Hope solidifies belief. Hope is one of those three things above everything...Faith, Hope, Love. It's sandwiched between the greatest of these love and the belief in the things that we do not see yet, faith.
We weren't told to wish. We were told to HOPE!
Hold on to hope. Live with hope!
*more to come
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